Female Detective Conan (Dream)


I dreamt that I was with two other friends – a male and a female. I knew that they were my friends, but I was pretty sure after I woke up that they were not one of my friends in this physical life. We went into an abandoned and dilapidated building, and I am not sure what our reason for going there was. It was an abandoned building, yet there was a female security guard sitting near the open door. She eyed me as if she could see through me, and told my companions that if they were seeking for mysteries to be solved, they would surely be best friends with me because I was blessed by “God” with the most talent in criminal investigations. I have other skills in life but she said that I definitely have that spy-like talent and that’s where most of my potential is. As she was speaking, I see English subtitles in my dreams, as if the dream itself was a foreign movie that still needs translation. When we stepped inside the building, we saw a pool of pale blood in the floor, and the blood was dripping from the ceiling. The guard mentioned two possible suspects, and referred to me as the one who could most possibly be able to solve the case. Me and my male friend went up the stairs, and followed the trail of blood. The guard looked like a nun this time, and still kept on talking as I was trying to figure out the situation. The more I went up the stairs, the more eerie it felt. I looked at my male friend and felt that the murderer was nearby. I told him to come down the stairs with me. When we reached the ground floor, I looked at the stairs again and saw a man with an ominous aura. I was pretty sure that that was the man we were looking for, but he was too scary to be reckoned with. Without saying what I saw, I told my friends to run and we ran away from the old abandoned building. 

A Seven-Year-Old Girl's Dream Come True


I distinctly remember him from when I was still in first and second grade. I really felt like I could not reach him; because I was seven while he was ten. When all of us played street games, my sister and I couldn’t match them all for they had longer limbs and taller statures compared to us. Our brothers of fourth, fifth, and sixth grades really gained my admiration, because they acted like they were more mature than the five of us who were in kindergarten, first grade, and second grade. Age differences really matter during childhood, and are very physically evident. JR was really special in my eyes, although I may have not really admitted it to myself back then, because he had this cool vibe in him, he walked slowly like a boy already going through puberty, and I liked his face. He was not really classically handsome, unlike Claudio who was really good-looking and looked like Harry Potter, but he looked really kind and understanding and open-minded. Once, when I was forced to ride with them in their tricycle, he looked at me with a warm smile. That kind of smile stayed with me for a long time. However, it was a smile that did not mean that he liked me romantically. Maybe it was a smile that said that he liked me as a playmate, as a girl younger than him. It was a distant kind of smile, the kind that secretly says, “I wish we were close.”

Out of all the boys that I have played with during that time, he had the most appeal. There’s just something about him that I could not pinpoint. I don’t know what it is, but I recall that whenever he was around, I suddenly freeze, turn into an ice queen, and become conscious of my actions. He was my childhood crush. Well, he was one of my childhood crushes, but he was the most special of them all because he  turned up during the happiest time of my life, which was during the time of Britney Spears, Westlife, and Stephen Speaks’ “Passenger Seat”. It was the most nostalgic time of my life. It was because of our parents that we could play with each other. I was really close with his younger brother because we were of the same age, but I just wished that it was him whom I was close to instead. I was so attracted to him. There was something soulful and mysterious about him that just made me want to get to know him better. Until I grew up into a teenager, I still remembered him as someone that I had a crush on before. And every time he popped into my mind and I wondered how he was, I just shrugged it off and thought that he probably already had a girlfriend, or had so many girlfriends and admirers. He was that appealing. He had that quiet charm that makes girls gravitate to him mysteriously.

Flashing forward twelve or thirteen years later, we saw each other for the first time again. And there are only about forty-eight hours left before Christmas Eve, the time when I plan to say yes to him to be his girlfriend. Our fathers also have met eye-to-eye again, talking about their children’s relationship and other matters. The seven-year-old girl in me still finds it hard to believe that the boy that she was only admiring from afar is now asking for her hand. That boy from her seven-year-old romantic fantasies is now carrying her like a princess, showing her around the city with his motorcycle, having a date with her on a night in a park full of Christmas lights, eating with her outside, holding her hands while walking at the baywalk, and showing her off to his big family. We owe everything that happens now to our happy childhood with each other. 2002 to 2004 are the best years ever. It’s also good that we only happened to see each other after twelve years because I have grown prettier, he has grown bigger and handsomer, and we have both matured and left behind some bad and childish habits. The seven-year-old girl in me feels very lucky for what is happening now, and very thankful although her desires were only granted by the universe a decade later. Who would have thought back then that we will still (he said that he was also equally interested in me back then, it’s just that we were too young) be so attracted to each other and get along so well, especially in a romantic way? 

Going Home for Christmas




There are only thirteen hours left before my flight to my hometown – Puerto Princesa, Palawan – and I’m already starting to feel my anticipation for my most awaited Christmas and the glory and love that I would receive when I come home. This feeling of excitement was triggered when I watched the “Ice Angels” segment of the Victoria’s Secret fashion show for this year. Seeing ice and snowflakes and feeling the coldness of the air by just watching them already makes me feel like walking outside on a cold Christmas Eve with my lover. I can’t wait to see what’s in store for me this Christmas. I know that there will be a lot of surprises. I just know it.

Right now, I am playing Mariah Carey’s “All I Want For Christmas Is You,” the best pop song the makes me feel the spirit of Christmas. Lights are not enough for me to feel the holiday season. I need music to affect my flesh and make my mind absorb that it is indeed the season to be jolly. I am deliberately doing this now because even after the last day of my final exams, I still felt dread because I was thinking that the day of my flight was still a week away. And one week is too long for a person who badly wants to go home for Christmas and see her loved ones. Also, it is harder for adults to feel happy during Christmas. We, as children, felt so much happiness during this period of time - but now the twenty-year-old me is just lamenting and asking herself, “Where did this happiness go?”

People look forward to Christmas because this season, compared to the rest of the year, is the only time to be genuinely happy, indulgent, and be with the people we love. This is the time to be grateful, the time to give, the time to receive, time of surprises, time of optimism, time of merry lights and celebratory music. If we think about it, the world must be so sad to agree to have a month only reserved for happiness. Personally, I would use this opportunity to wear dresses, wear makeup, eat everything I want, and just spend time with every single thing or person that makes me happy. I have struggled so much this year both in the university and in my home. This was a year of illnesses, friendship trials, romantic affairs, cheating, taking up hateful subjects, and severing of ties. When I take a step for the first time again into the soil of my hometown, I would definitely make sure to live like I don’t care about anything and make sure that I will have no regrets. I would cook meals for my family and spend most of my time with my childhood crush turned to lover. Besides those, I wouldn’t care about anything anymore. J

Response to Gloria Anzaldua’s “Speaking In Tongues: A Letter To 3rd World Women Writers”

I am a third world woman.:)

Dear Gloria,

Women like you make me proud of being a mujeres de color. There’s nothing wrong with it. The struggles of women of color are unique and are something that the white women cannot understand. These struggles that we eventually overcome make us learn some things in life that white women don’t know. These kinds of struggles make all women of color understand and lean on one another. We share the same kind of sentiments against a patriarchal world that is dominated by white men. In this profoundly sick society, it seems that it would still take a very long time for third world women to rise from their very low position in society – and yet, I still agree with you when you said that at the end of the day, blaming everyone is useless and that we are all responsible for ourselves. I know how true that is because as a third world girl in a third world country, I’ve suffered so much from my own inferiority complex and the consequences of having it was slapped into my face the moment I first stepped into this university. But bit by bit, I have overcome this and helped myself to become better. I’ve accelerated a few steps in the ladder of life because I have helped myself.

However, there’s one petty thing that I have noticed – and yet it’s something that you should remember too. You talk about the Asian women as if being “Asian” is limited to the chinks like the Chinese, Japanese, and Koreans. You forgot the Filipina women or any other Southeast Asians of the Malayan race. We are Asians, too. J However, we should not let racial differences deter us from helping and understanding one another. Because even among third world nations, there is still a sense of “I-am-better-or-less-than-that-race”. Skin color is just an illusion. It’s merely melanin, merely pigmentation, and it does not reflect what kind of souls we have. Chicanas or Latinas are not better than any race, like for example than the Filipinas, just because they look prettier. Third world women share the same kind of struggles no matter how much we pinpoint the differences of our heights, noses, skin colors, or beauty. Chicanas, Latinas, and Filipinas owe a percentage of their appearances now to the Spanish and Portuguese colonizers – but instead of comparing ourselves with each other like we often do, it is better to just hold each other’s hands, look into each other’s eyes, and sympathize with each other as the third world women of this planet.

And as much as we hate putting the west and the orient into a binary opposition just like in the “Orientalism” by Edward Said, it has long been done since the European colonizers have differentiated themselves from the “orient” and justified its colonial conquest of it through its “otherness.” Right now, we hate labels and we aim for equality. However, orientalism has made such a great impact that, right now, we can firmly say that white women are utterly different from us, and their western version of feminism do not, in fact, address the struggles of third world women like us. These white women writers still cannot reach far deeply into the souls of other women since they weren’t deprived and unprivileged like us in the first place. We all contain the divine feminine energy within us, yet there is still a wide and empty gap – a gap made by the division of the world into the occident and the orient, and into first, second, and third world countries.

Like what you have pointed out, our speech is inaudible here in a sick world in which white males rule the world. You said, “We speak in tongues like the outcast and the insane.” We are the untouchables in the international caste system. We are dirty. We are whores. We are uneducated and ill-mannered. White people always rob us of everything – from then until now. We provide the labor and man power while they enjoy the luxury that resulted from our blood and sweat. They rob us of resources and ideas and of means to make our own nations prosper. They want to own the whole world. And our state as women looks very hopeless, since we are still doubye colonized. Not only are we subjugated by the first world; we are also subjugated by this patriarchal world. For thousands of years, we have been silenced. Now, it’s time for the third world women to speak through writing, and pour their souls out for the world to see and feel. We have to express. We have to speak out. We have had enough.

You ask, how dare we have the right to write? You say, the whole world would not even try to give importance in whatever we have to write unless we bleach our skins and write right-handed. However, the western logic that schools and universities have used to brainwash us is not the thing that makes writing beautiful. It is not even through literary criticism done in classes. It is through reaching through the depths of our soul, being honest with ourselves, and treating the readers as if they are merely humans who understand human suffering in this universe. I have loved writing about anything, especially about myself, ever since I was an elementary student – and I have excelled in subjects that require writing. I even wondered before why some people find it hard to write essays and feel insecure whenever they have to write in English. But lately, I realized that writing is not a logical skill but it is the ability to share your heart and soul through paper, as if you talk to your childhood friend who knows who you really are and judges you not. It is through writing that we reach our subconscious mind, the part of ourselves that we have repressed, our innermost thoughts, and our alter ego that we think the right-handed world would deem insane. Writing is about expressing who we really are, and not about impressing other people with our way with words. Writing for the purpose of impressing others makes the literary work empty, a fake, a hypocritical one. It would lack the thing that touches the souls of other human beings because it came from the head, and not the heart. It is the heart that speaks through us through writing. Perhaps that is also why we love reading journals and diaries of other people. It is the rawness and authenticity of the person that should come out through their writings, because we have no other thing to offer the world but who we really are.  

There is no separation between life and writing. – Gloria Anzaldua

I like it when you said that there is no separation between life and writing. As writers, we need experience so much in life in order to produce an authentic and soulful writing. Otherwise, it would really be too hypocritical. I, for example, cannot write in the point of view of a divorced woman because I have never been married. However, I can write through the eyes of a child because I have experienced childhood and I always go back to my past happy memories and traumas. No topic is really too trivial, as long as what you say really comes from you, your soul, and you really know what you are talking about. Pleasing other people, or the world at large, should never be a concern in writing. Otherwise, we would be inhibited in our thoughts and writings, and would therefore make our writings inauthentic. I personally think that we should forget about being politically correct. We should, as humans, express the truth of who we are, whether or not some people would be offended by it. Our personal freedom in writing is more important than making people feel at ease by suppressing our true thoughts and feelings. We need more humane writers who write with their hearts and do not depend so much on logic. We have to break free from the logical rigidity that the current educational system perpetuates. We are humans. Writing should come naturally from our hearts, not from a space of obligation or duty.

We get surprised by what we write sometimes. Sometimes we sound too wise, immature, or whatever. But it’s only our suppressed selves that come out. Every one of us has something to say to the world. Do not suppress it. We are given voices for a reason. Use it. And as third world women, I think it’s time to come out of our wooden huts and say or write whatever we want regardless of what the white and patriarchal world would say. Sometime in the future, I know that bit by bit, the third world women will step up into the world and become heard – either through public speech or writing. Someday, we will come out of being merely subalterns. Our skin colors would mean nothing but melanin. Anyway, thank you Gloria for your attempt of waking up third world women, especially the writers. We have something to express and we should not be ashamed of it. Thank you for your bravery, and may more third world women be awakened too.


Anthea

Charming Future Boyfriend (Dream)


I have slept this afternoon and I had a dream. My dream had many facets, and it seemed like it would never end, but there’s one significant part of my dream that I thought I had to document and post here. I dreamt that everyone who cares or cared about me in my life - my family, friends, classmates, former classmates, relatives, admirers, etc. - have surrounded my current lover, JR, and formed a very big circle. I was part of the big circle, and JR was in the middle. I was very worried for him because it seemed like he would get judged by these people in my life. He looked very ordinary, and not very handsome, but suddenly he cracked a joke and every one of us laughed like crazy. He cracked a joke again – and this time, everyone loved him so much already. I was so relieved and I was so proud of him. I shrieked, “Hala, para siyang si Jiereck!” (He is like Jiereck!) Jiereck was my high school classmate, the “boy pick-up” of our batch, because he always said pick-up lines that are very funny every single time. Some dreams are about our past, while some dreams are a way of manifestation or creation of the future. Therefore, I believe that this dream is a premonition that eventually, JR will get the approval of almost all people in my life. And we will be very happy together. I am so excited to finally announce to the world that I will be in a relationship with him in the future. J
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